Contents

That Night

Our Struggle

Our Struggle (continued)

An Eerie Premonition

The Name Katrina

My Girl

Aunt Diane's Eulogy

We Need One Another

Poem About Katie

Photos

Katie's favorite holiday

Katie's Final Hours

Katie's 17th Birthday Present

Comments/Reactions

Farewell to Katie

Please sign Katie's GuestBook

What You Can Do

Dear Katie, from Dennis

Poems of Comfort and
Inspiration

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Our Struggle
(continued)

Having a child involved with drugs is a nearly unbearable,
unimaginable  stress.

Distraught, I couldn't  fight the insurance company's denial
on top of that stress. Katie's dad and I, and her brother
were pursuing other avenues of getting help, but
unfortunately, they take time.

Time that Katie obviously did not have!

Oddly, the insurance company stance on this had lulled me into a
false sense of complacency that, once she had an OD, she would
qualify for intensive, inpatient treatment, and recovery could then
begin. 

Not every one survives that first OD. Katie didn't.   What they
required to get her treatment, killed her. To give some meaning to
Katie's tragic death, I want to expose the widespread practice of
making consumers battle the insurance companies for reasonable
and appropriate care. It is my sincere wish that this deadly game
be stopped before another family suffers the pain, anguish and
sorrow that will haunt our family for the rest of our days.  

DASPOP, which stands for Drug & Alcohol Service Providers
Organization of Pennsylvania, is an organization that is working
hard to end the practice that prevented us from getting timely and
appropriate care for our child.  Our child who was literally begging
for help.   We have paid a price that no family should ever have to
pay. 

Regardless of whether you were ultimately successful or
unsuccessful, whether your loved one died or survived, DASPOP is
interested in hearing from anyone who has ever had to fight with an
insurance company to obtain covered Drug & Alcohol treatment
benefits. If you are presently battling an insurance company to obtain
these benefits, DASPOP can help.    

Letters may be addressed to:   DASPOP at 2033 Linglestown Road,
Box 230, Harrisburg, PA. 17110.   Or, if you fear that your insurance
company's resistance to providing appropriate treatment could soon
result in your loved one's death, call DASPOP at (717) 657-7702.
While this is not an emergency hotline, they will try to get back to you
within a day if your need is pressing.  

If only I had known this a few months ago, my beautiful daughter
could still be alive. I pray that this saves other lives. You can help by
sharing your story with DASPOP. 

We MUST beat the drum of INSISTENCE  to get the care that the
insurance policies purport to cover.   The drum beat must grow and
persist until the insurance giant wakes up and realizes that consumers
will no longer tolerate this needless and tragic loss of lives.

If you would also like to share your story with me, or, if you knew
Katie and would like to share your thoughts, memories, etc., please
e-mail me at:

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